본 연구의 목적은 성인의 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙과 애착이 이성관계만족에 미치는 영향을 조사하는 것이다. 이를 위해 이성교제 중인 20세 이상의 연인 69쌍(138명)을 대상으로 설문을 실시한 후, 설문에 모두 응답한 연인 62쌍(124명)의 자료를 분석하였다. 본 연구에서는 이성관계애착척도, 한국판 결혼만족도 검사(Korean Marital Satisfaction Inventory; K-MSI)를 미혼남녀에게 적합하게 수정한 이성관계만족도 척도, 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙 설문지(Consensual Unwanted Sex Scale)를 사용하였다. 본 연구 결과는 다음과 같다. 첫째, 여성의 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙은 관계만족도와 부적인 상관을 나타냈다. 둘째, 여성의 애착불안이 높을수록 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙을 더 많이 보이는 것으로 나타났다. 셋째, 여성의 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙은 연인 내 관계만족도 차이에 직접효과를 나타냈으며, 여성의 애착불안은 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙을 통해 연인 내 관계만족도 차이에 간접효과를 나타냈다. 넷째, 여성의 원하지 않는 성행동 응낙은 자신의 관계만족도에 유의미한 자기효과를 나타냈으나 상대방효과를 보이지는 않았다. 끝으로, 본 연구의 시사점 및 앞으로의 연구 방향에 대해 논의하였다.
This study is to explore the effects of consensual unwanted sex and attachment on satisfaction with romantic relationship. A survey was conducted on 69 adult couples (138 persons) who are aged 20 and over and currently in a relationship, and the data from 62 couples (62 men, 62 women) who completed the self-report scales was utilized. The subjects were asked to answer questionnaires including the Experience of Close Relationship Scales (ECRS), the Scale of Satisfaction with Romantic Relationship, and the Consensual Unwanted Sex Scale. The result are as follows; First, women's consensual unwanted sex is negatively correlated with their relationship satisfaction. Second, women are more likely to consent to unwanted sex as their attachment anxiety increases. Third, women's consensual unwanted sex has a direct effect on satisfaction with relationship and their attachment anxiety has an indirect influence on satisfaction through the consent of unwanted sex. Fourth, women's consensual unwanted sex shows a significant effect on women's relationship satisfaction whereas it does not exhibit a significant effect on the relationship satisfaction of their partners. The implications and the limitations of this study and the future research directions are discussed.
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