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The Korean Journal of Woman Psychology

Korean Kirogi Mothers’ Experience and Growth From the Relational-Cultural Therapy Perspective

Abstract

This study aimed to understand psychosocial needs and growth of Korean Kirogi mothers, and provide clinical implications from the relational-cultural therapy perspective. In-depth interviews were conducted on 14 Christian Kirogi mothers who were staying in Los Angeles (LA), California. Data was transcribed, and coded utilizing an analysis program called NVivo 10. Two dimensions, challenges and positive sources. emerged through the analysis process. These two domains were each saturated into three sub-domains: intrapersonal factors, family factors, and socio-structural factors. The results demonstrated how Kirogi mothers faced and coped with life difficulties in relationships and sociocultural environment. When they face difficulties, they were able to experience growth through self-empathy and mutual empathy in growth-fostering relationships. Additionally, their relationship with God helps them grow further. Finally, effective and practical strategies for clinical interventions were discussed.

keywords
기러기엄마, 관계문화적 상담, 심리사회적 성장, Kirogi mothers, Relational-cultural therapy, Psycho-social growth

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