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성인애착은 용서가 안녕감에 미치는 영향을 조절하는가

Does Adult-Attachment Moderate the Effects of Forgiveness on Well-being?

한국심리학회지: 일반 / Korean Journal of Psychology: General, (P)1229-067X; (E)2734-1127
2012, v.31 no.3, pp.917-939
윤성민 (한양사이버대학교)
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초록

본 연구에서는 용서의 두 측면인 특질용서 및 상황-특정적 용서와 안녕감과의 관련성을 살펴보고, 이들 간의 관계를 성인애착유형이 조절하는지 알아보고자 하였다. 이를 위해 대학생 400명을 대상으로 용서특질 척도, 한국인 용서척도, 친밀관계 경험-개정판, 삶의 만족도 척도를 실시하여 자료를 분석하였다. 그 결과, 특질용서와 상황-특정적 용서는 모두 성인애착유형의 두 하위차원인 회피애착 및 불안애착과 부적으로 유의한 상관이 있었고, 안녕감과는 정적으로 유의한 상관이 있었다. 회피애착과 불안애착은 모두 안녕감과 부적으로 유의한 상관이 있었다. 또한 용서의 두 측면 모두가 안녕감에 미치는 영향을 불안애착이 조절하는 것으로 나타났다. 즉, 불안애착이 낮은 사람들은 특질용서가 높아짐에 따라 안녕감은 더욱 큰 폭으로 증가하였고, 상황-특정적 용서의 경우에는 불안애착이 높은 사람들의 경우, 상황-특정적 용서를 많이 할수록 안녕감은 오히려 떨어지는 것으로 나타났다. 이러한 결과는 대인관계 침해사건을 호소하는 내담자들에게 안녕감 증진을 위해 도움을 주고자 할 때, 그들에게 무조건적으로 용서촉진을 위한 개입을 할 것이 아니라, 그들의 불안애착 수준을 고려하여 불안애착의 정도에 따라 용서개입을 달리 하여야 함을 시사하였다는 점에서 임상적 의의가 있다.

keywords
특질용서, 상황-특정적 용서, 성인애착, 안녕감, 조절효과, trait forgiveness, situation specific forgiveness, adult-attachment, well-being, moderating effect

Abstract

The present study aimed to examine the relations of two sides of forgiveness including trait forgiveness and situation-specific forgiveness, adult-attachment consisting of two sub dimensions, and well-being measured with Satisfaction With Life Scale and to examine the moderation effects of adult-attachment on these relations. For this study, the data of 400 college students were analyzed. The research packet included Trait Forgiveness Scale, Korean-Forgiveness Scale, Experiences in Close Relationship Scale-Revised, and Satisfaction With Life Scale. The results showed the followings: 1) the two sides of forgiveness were negatively associated with the two sub dimensions of adult-attachment, namely, attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance, 2) the two sides of forgiveness were positively associated with well-being, 3) the two sub dimensions of adult-attachment were negatively associated with well-being, 4) attachment anxiety moderated the relation between the two sides of forgiveness and well-being. Finally, the implications of these findings and directions for future study were discussed.

keywords
특질용서, 상황-특정적 용서, 성인애착, 안녕감, 조절효과, trait forgiveness, situation specific forgiveness, adult-attachment, well-being, moderating effect

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